To read more about managing children's behavior:
CDC: Positive Parenting Tips - Preschoolers (3-5 years old) https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevelopment/positiveparenting/preschoolers.html
The effects of praise: 7 evidence-based tips for praising kids the right way https://www.parentingscience.com/effects-of-praise.html
Just in Time Parenting https://jitp.info/
Maslow’s Theory of Motivation (Hierarchy of Needs) https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html
Basic Tips Child Care Providers Can Use to Guide Children's Behavior http://www.extension.org/pages/25703/basic-tips-child-care-providers-can-use-to-guide-childrens-behavior#.VbaCGPkYE6U
Help Your Child Develop Self-Control https://www.zerotothree.org/resources/228-help-your-child-develop-self-control
Helping Young Children Channel Their Aggression https://www.zerotothree.org/resources/12-helping-young-children-channel-their-aggression
Discipline that Works: The Ages and Stages Approach http://umaine.edu/publications/4140e/